Bring back the "scrawling": "Life is unfair"

Hello Readers, I honestly intend on writing everyday but it just takes me a little bit of time to figure out what I want to write about, until I heard this phrase which is no strange to any of our ears "life is unfair" and I got inspired.

"My life is just too difficult", "Everything is going wrong", "The universe just isn't on my side"; We hear phrases like that more than once everyday to say the least, so why is it that so many of us come to feel this way?
Yes, it's true that sometimes things really don't go as planned and it's true that matters may get more difficult than usual at times, but what does "life" have to do with it? What is this "life" that we constantly blame for anything and everything?
Everything that we do or hat happen to us in our lives has something to do with decisions and actions we've made. I think each and every one of us knows this, we all know that anything that happens is because of our selves but we choose to blame it on this so called abstract idea we call life. Why? Because we know that it won't get hurt by our blaming and that it won't talk back. It's our easy way out of facing the reality of our choices.
You might say I'm over thinking the matter and maybe I am but take a moment and roll this around in your brain; What if life had feelings? What if it feels misused and hurt by you and the way you treat it? Life isn't unfair, YOU are unfair to life.
What I'm trying to get at here is that you can't really brush things under the carpet and throw it all on life because life doesn't exist unless you make it, you build your life. Why would you tell yourself that life is breaking you down when it isn't even there? Whatever is there is whatever you put.
Think of your life as a baby, it knows nothing except what you tell it. It won't do anything unless you tell it to.
You would ask, how? You never decided to fail at school, or get a divorce, did you?.
Oh but you did.
It's the butterfly effect you see, you failed at school because you decided to, somewhere along the line as you were teaching your life baby, not to show it the way to success. You make little decisions and then that little butterfly goes on fluttering and shows you the effect of your every decision, even the smallest.
SO yes, you did.

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Engy <3